Words can do incredible damage, but they can’t hold a candle to silence.
Often it is those words that have been withheld which leave the greatest scars upon us. It is in that terrible absence that we are dealt the harshest blow by those who claim to love us.
Somewhere along the line you were denied something you needed to live; something destination-altering and hope-giving that you deserved.
At some point on your path, someone should have encouraged you, but refrained.
They should have defended you, but did not.
They should have released you, but chose not to.
They should have said something—instead of nothing.
Someone should have told you that you were beautiful far beneath the surface, so that you didn’t grow up believing that you were defined by your waistline or by the scale or by the affection of someone else who may have cared far too little for you.
Someone should have told you that
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Those were the “GOOD OLE DAYS”
Headed out to Orlando this week, for work and for FUN! Can’t wait to check out the new addition to Universal Studios Wizarding World of Harry Potter section and ride this………
- Wizarding World of Harry Potter Diagon Alley is coming to Universal Orlando in 2014 Gigantic news released today out of Universal Orlando that will…
- Honeydukes Candy Shop at the Wizarding World of Harry Potter Photos galore! Honeydukes sweet shop was one of my favorite…
- Photos Galore from the Wizarding World of Harry Potter Amazing day. Tough for our photos to do it justice…
- Ollivander’s Wand Shop at the Wizarding World of Harry Potter Literally stuffed with wands from floor to ceiling, this place..
This just felt very fitting for what I am dealing with….
Her world was shaken
In what way,
I do not know
My first thought was
but that didn’t feel right
And as I thought about her
in her time of need
I hoped that she would reach out
maybe to a good friend
and try not to shoulder this burden on her own
we need to say
“I need you”
even if it’s just a hand to hold
or a shoulder to cry on
Sometimes we have to remember
that we don’t have to do everything
on our own
We have to remember that friends aren’t there
just for the good times
but for the bad times too
There is no amount of pain that will change the past. We can get stuck in our pain for so long that it doesn’t even make sense any longer. Nothing does. All we know is we are in pain and nothing seems to work.
I never say that you should not feel your pain! I say feel your pain for as long as you need to;but learn when it is time to let it go. Once that pain doesn’t serve you, yes I said “serve you” because sometimes pain can help us get past things, own it, but once it is making life simply too hard to navigate, then it is time to let it go. Only we have the power to know when it is time and to do something about it. There may be times when the pain is too great and we can’t seem to pull ourselves…
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For reasons unknown to almost everyone in my life today (the last hour) has been one of the most depressing and sad days I have ever experienced. I sit still and wonder about the timing of the world and how things transpire and I truly know that God would not put more on me than I could handle and he has proven this to me time and time again. The information I just received moments ago breaks my heart and I sit here in tears unable to fathom the feelings and emotions of the person who just called. I am not a person who cries, literally I cry so rarely it is probably unhealthy but I can hardly see my screen right now as I type. I know that there is a bigger plan and I am only a pawn in this plan but that is a harsh reality for me at this moment. I want to change the plan, I want to go back in time, I want to fix the things that have happened to get to this point. Unfortunately I also want to punish those who are unreasonable, and unforgiving so that I can make them understand what their actions are doing to others. I want to trade places with the person who is hurting right now, I want to make it better and I am unable. I must only believe that just as God wouldn’t put more on me he would not give this other person more than they could handle either.
I am afraid I will now withdraw even more than before, and shut all my emotions inside. I do not like the pain, or the fear I feel for this person, and unfortunately there is more to come that will make this the nightmare I am anticipating. I want to wake up and learn this has all just been a dream but I know I can’t…..
This is totally awesome and I want to try it!
May I find myself in places no one has ever been before….and not get in trouble on my way there!!!!