The opposite of love is not hate. If you hate someone you still have some emotion toward the individual in one aspect or another. If you can not get past this emotion there is obviously something deeply embedded in your psyche that has a hold on you. The opposite of love would be to no longer care or INDIFFERENCE. In order to truly live and be happy one must get past the grudge and have the ability to let it go – PERMANENTLY – let it go. Remember life is to short to hold a grudge because in the end it is you that is truly impacted.
“The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it’s indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it’s indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it’s indifference.” Elie Wiesels